Last night I went to a super secret party (it was so secret in fact, I cannot tell you about it). I ran into an old music friend and we had a conversation that ended up with her saying this:
“Why do people feel the need to hold onto old hurt? It’s gone, in the past. Love is where is it at. You have to rise above and be the bigger person, always. That’s the kind of person you are. Why would you be petty and low, when it’s clear to everyone in this room, you won. You got the guy, the guy we all love, the guy who adores you, the best guy ever. So, why does anything else matter? Why do we as humans allow ourselves to still be selfish, petty bastards when we already have everything we could possible want. People change, girl, people change and situations change, and you have to change to. You have to allow yourself to send the people you hate, love. Because you are a bigger, better person that you are being.”
And that was the end, sometimes I get my actions kicked in the ass by really smart girls.